Exchange Connection Problems

How to Use Microsoft 365 Email and Third-Party Server Email Together

Emma BrownEmma Brown Nov 3, 2026 868 views

Question details

The user wants to host specific email accounts on Microsoft 365 and other accounts on a third-party server under the same domain to save on licensing costs.

How to Use Microsoft 365 Email and Third-Party Server Email Together
Product
Microsoft 365
Device & OS
not provided
Scenario
Setting up email coexistence between Microsoft 365 and another hosting provider for different users sharing a single domain.
Observed behavior
Simply adding multiple MX records does not split email routing. Explicit internal relay and connector configurations are required to deliver mail correctly across both servers.
Before you start

Ensure you have Global Administrator privileges for your Microsoft 365 account and access to the DNS management portal of your domain registrar to modify MX records.

Solution 1Recommended

Configure Email Coexistence Using Exchange Admin Center

Set up Microsoft 365 as an Internal Relay to route mail to your third-party server for any unrecognized email addresses.

To use Microsoft 365 and a third-party email server together, you cannot simply use multiple MX records to split the mail. Instead, you must point your domain's primary MX record to Microsoft 365, configure your domain as an Internal Relay, and create an outbound connector to route emails for non-Microsoft 365 users to your third-party server.

1
Verify Third-Party Server Capabilities

Confirm with your third-party hosting provider that their server supports mail forwarding and coexistence, and obtain the Smart Host IP address or domain name required for routing.

2
Set Domain to Internal Relay

Log into the Microsoft 365 Exchange Admin Center. Navigate to 'Mail flow' > 'Accepted domains'. Select your domain, change the domain type from 'Authoritative' to 'Internal Relay', and save the changes.

3
Create an Outbound Connector

In the Exchange Admin Center, go to 'Mail flow' > 'Connectors'. Add a new connector from 'Office 365' to 'Your organization's email server'. Enter the Smart Host IP address or FQDN of your third-party server.

4
Update Domain MX Records

Log into your domain registrar's control panel. Update your primary MX record to point exclusively to Microsoft 365 (e.g., yourdomain-com.mail.protection.outlook.com). Remove any existing third-party MX records.

5
Test Mail Delivery

Send test emails from external addresses (like Gmail) to both a Microsoft 365 mailbox and a third-party mailbox on your domain to verify that mail routes correctly through the Exchange connector.

Configure Email Coexistence Using Exchange Admin Center
Testing Environment Recommended: Always test inbound and outbound delivery for a few specific mailboxes during off-peak hours before switching your production mail flow completely.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Can I use multiple MX records to split mail between Microsoft 365 and another host?

No. A single MX destination does not automatically split mail. Secondary MX records are used for fallback if the primary server goes down, not for splitting active users. You must configure mail routing and connectors to achieve coexistence.

What is an Internal Relay in Exchange Online?

Internal Relay is a domain setting in Microsoft 365 indicating that if a recipient is not found in your Microsoft 365 user directory, the Exchange server should forward the email to another specified server (like your third-party host) rather than bouncing it back as undeliverable.

Do I need a specific license to set up email coexistence?

You must have an Office 365 or Microsoft 365 subscription that includes Exchange Online (such as Business Basic, Standard, or Premium). This gives you access to the Exchange Admin Center required to configure the necessary internal relay and outbound connectors.